5) Even when he is consoling you, you don't feel emotions in his words, rather there is always criticism
This is real bad! When you actually need a shoulder to cry on, a hand to wipe your tears; what you get is criticism that how wrong were you in the situation. The worst part, even if he consoles, giving you the shoulder and wiping your tears, there are still no emotions. No hard-made effort to cheer you or motivate you or even help you thereafter.
At the moment, you might not feel it but the fact is someone who is not concerned or empathetic when you are in problem and has hundreds of things to tell that why you were wrong then definitely this person is not meant for you.
Even if you are wrong still, even if the rest of the world is not, he should be standing by your side at least and not criticising you