Do you use emotional words to persuade others? Here's why

What do you do when you have to influence others? You try to make others sentimental and make them feel empathetic by using emotional words.

To sway an audience or bring around colleagues to their point of view in office meetings, most people intuitively use emotional language to enhance their persuasive powers - knowing clearly that the effort could even backfire, researchers say.

The research showed that people tend toward appeals that aren't simply more positive or negative but are infused with emotionality, even when they're trying to sway an audience that may not be receptive to such language."Beyond simply becoming more positive or negative, people spontaneously shift toward using more emotional language when trying to persuade," said researcher Matthew D Rocklage of The Kellogg School of Management at Northwestern University.

According to the study that was published in Psychological Science, a journal of the Association for Psychological Science, we might imagine that people would use very positive words such as "excellent" or "outstanding" to bring others around to their point of view. The findings, however, showed that people specifically used terms that convey a greater degree of emotion, such as "exciting" and "thrilling."

Understanding the components that make for a persuasive message is a critical focus of fields ranging from advertising to politics and even public health. "It's possible that to be seen as rational and reasonable, people might remove emotion from their language when attempting to persuade," Rocklage noted. In one online study, the researchers showed 1,285 participants a photo and some relevant details for a particular product available from Amazon.com. 

They asked some participants to write a five-star review that would persuade readers to purchase that product, while they asked others to write a five-star review that simply described the product's positive features. Using an established tool for quantitative linguistic analysis, the researchers then quantified how emotional, positive or negative, and extreme the reviews were.The data showed that reviewers used more emotional language when they were trying to persuade readers to buy a product compared with when they were writing a five-star review without intending to persuade. 

Participants' persuasive reviews also had more emotional language compared with actual five-star reviews for the same products published on Amazon.com.Importantly, the shift toward more emotional language appeared to be automatic rather than deliberative, the researchers noted.